May 26, 2010

If Love Is

I do believe in soul mates
Lucky perceptive soul
Of hugs and kisses, oh more than that

Vulnerable to adhering
Envying the smallest gestures
Yet the agony
Of never wanting to be solitary

Unbelievably calm
Masculine, soaring, charming
Otherwise sweetest smile

He comforts sorrow away
Deals with anger and pain
Acts rationally, wisely
Revolves around others

Indeed love is
For him
For he is wonderful

May 22, 2010

Your Personality

Whether you're a young adult trying to find your place in the world, or a not-so-young adult trying to find out if you're moving along the right path, it's important to understand yourself and the personality traits which will impact your likeliness to succeed or fail at various careers.

It's equally important to understand what is really important to you. When armed with an understanding of your strengths and weaknesses, and an awareness of what you truly value, you are in an excellent position to pick a career which you will find rewarding.

1. Take this quiz

Take time to understand the questions and answer truthfully. If there are any words that you do not understand, look up an online dictionary.

2. Your Personality Traits

Based on scientific methodology, you answer a series or questions to evaluate yourself on four dichotomies.

Extraverted - Introverted
Sensing - iNtuitive
Thinking - Feeling
Judging - Perceiving

Thus, there are sixteen possible combinations, usually abbreviated with four letters like INTP. They are also known as the Promoter, Crafter, Performer, Composer, Administrator, Organizer, Provider, Protector, Communicator, Dreamer, Champion, Healer, General, Mastermind, Inventor, and Professor.

Which one are you?

3. Mine is ENFJ = Communicator

ENFJs generally have the following traits:
* Genuinely and warmly interested in people
* Value people's feelings
* Value structure and organization
* Value harmony, and good at creating it
* Exceptionally good people skills
* Dislike impersonal logic and analysis
* Strong organizational capabilities
* Loyal and honest
* Creative and imaginative
* Enjoy variety and new challenges
* Get personal satisfaction from helping others
* Extremely sensitive to criticism and discord
* Need approval from others to feel good about themselves

The flexibility of these characteristics leave the ENFJ a lot of leeway in choosing a profession. As long as they're in a supportive environment in which they can work with people and are presented with sufficient diverse challenges to stimulate their creativity, they should do very well.

The following list of professions is built on our impressions of careers which would be especially suitable for an ENFJ. It is meant to be a starting place, rather than an exhaustive list. There are no guarantees that any or all of the careers listed here would be appropriate for you, or that your best career match is among those listed here.

Possible Career Paths for the ENFJ:

* Facilitator
* Consultant
* Psychologist
* Social Worker / Counselor
* Teacher
* Clergy
* Sales Representative
* Human Resources
* Manager
* Events Coordinator
* Sales Representative
* Politicians / Diplomats
* Writers

and thats why I'm a teacher! =)

4. Google 'ENFJ' or whatever that you got. Find out more about yourself and the careers that suit you!






Tell me what you got!

May 18, 2010

How to Dress according to Your Body Shape

The Apple

Fashion For Your Shape:
Fashion Tips For Your Body Shape: Apple

Pear Shape

Fashion For Your Shape:
Fashion Advice For Your Body Shape: Pear

Hourglass Shape

Fashion For Your Shape:
Fashion Tips For Your Body Shape: Hourglass

Inverted Triangle

Fashion For Your Shape:
Fashion Tips For Your Body Shape: Triangle

The Ruler

Fashion For Your Shape:
Fashion Tips For Your Body Shape: Boyish


Which body shape do you have?

Fact: If you think you're bottom-heavy or top-heavy,then you probably are!
Don't try to size it down.
You will NOT get a smaller bottom.
Your shape will remain the same no matter how skinny or fat you get.
Research has proven that you will always get the SAME bust/waist and hip/waist ratio no matter how small or large you get.

You have one body, learn to love it, live with it, and look your best out of it.

Follow these simple steps to determine your body shape:

1. Start by changing into your best bra and underwear. Making sure the bra is fitted properly. Having a properly fitted bra will help give accurate measurements.
2. With a measuring tape measure the bust, waist, and hips. Keep the measuring tape firm against the skin (not too tight but not too loose either) and keep it parallel with the floor. It may be helpful to have a friend or loved one help to make sure the measurements are accurate. Write down the number so that the information will be correct.
3. Measure the bust at the fullest part of the breast line keeping the measuring tape straight across the back.
4. Measure the waist at the narrowest part of the waist line, this is usually at or slightly above the belly button. Feel for the natural curve of the waist at your side.
5. Measure the hips at the fullest part of the bottom, around the curve of the hips, again make sure to keep the measuring tape straight across.

Now for some simple math to determine your body shape:

* Divide the hip number by the waist number. (hip/waist)
* Divide the bust number by the waist number. (bust/waist)
* Divide the waist number by the hip number. (waist/hip)
* Divide the waist number by the bust number. (waist/bust)

With your numbers, figure out your body type.

Apple shape: If your waist/hip and waist/bust ratio is greater than .75 you are considered an apple. The apple body shape usually have average size breast, a larger belly and a flat butt.

Pear shape:
If your hip/waist is greater than 1.25 and your waist/bust is greater than .75. Pear shapes usually have small breast, long waist, a flat tum

Hour-glass shape: If your hip and bust measures within two inches of each other or your waist/hip and waist/bust ratio is less than .75 you have an hour-glass body shape. The hour-glass body shape is considered to be the ideal or perfect body shape. An hour-glass usually has large breasts, short small waist, big hips and large thighs.

(Cello Shape: combination of Hour-glass and pear shape)

Ruler shape: If you are lean with long legs and the shoulder width is equal to the hip width, think model. If your waist/hip and waist/bust ratio is greater than .75 or your hips and bust are the same.

Reverted Triangle: If your bust/waist ratio is greater than 1.25 or a waist/hip greater than .75, your upper body dominates your stature. This can be known as a strawberry or goblet shape. Usually the breasts are large with broad shoulders with a small or no waist and narrow hips.

Check out 'How to dress according to your body shape'

Till then,

May 10, 2010

Lets Talk about Money

Hi everyone..

Today I'd like to discuss the Parkinson's Law.
Before you fret away, this has got nothing to do with legal acts or lawyers or the law.

Definition: If you make more money, the demand for your money rises.

It can also be defined as "Lifestyle Inflation" and is your Option A

Option A
The more money you get, the more you spend, the more you swipe your plastics and the more the merrier right? Yes that's right. You keep spending and spending and get into more sinner deadlier debts! You get poorer by the day. Go ahead if you want to go bald by 40.

Option B
However if you spend less than the amount of money you make you are fighting against the Parkinson's law. And that is greattt! Its as simple as that. Give yourself a pat on the back.

Lets break it down.

If you earn RM 2500 per month

This is what you'll have to do to become richer by the dozen

1. Pay for your car = RM 500
2. Pay for your rent = RM 200

1. Electricity Bill: RM 50
2. Phone Bill: RM 140
3. Water Bill: RM 20

Note: You have control over your electricity, water and phone bills.
#Tip 1: Switch off the power points when leaving the house.
#Tip 2: When buying electrical appliances, look for "Energy Saving" stickers.These include power saving light bulbs.
#Tip 3: Make phone calls only when its urgent, if its not, just send a text message.
#Tip 4: View bills online. Most telecommunication companies charge you extra when they send bills to your house.
#Tip 5: Wash your clothes once a week.
#Tip 6: Wash your car with a pail and not a hose.

1. EPF/ SOCSO = RM 250
2. Save 10% for rainy days = RM 150
3. Savings in case car breaks down = RM 100
4. Savings for annual holiday = RM 100

1. Groceries (Food,Toiletries) = RM 500
2. Gas (RM 60 per week) = RM 240

Lets add them all up.

RM 700 + RM 210 + RM 600 + RM 740 = RM 2250

You still have RM 250 to spend for yourself.
To not go overboard with shopping, divide RM 250 into 4 weeks.
That's roughly RM 63 per week. So if you're dreaming of SKII, wait till you're allowed to spend RM 630 per week on shopping.

Until then, I'll keep on dreaming too.
Its all about discipline girls. Visit Irfan Khairi's website for more info on getting rich. Irfan Khairi, the internet millionaire is very disciplined.

To Be A Mommy

What does it mean to be a woman?
To wash the dishes,
To cook and clean,
To do the laundry,
To mop the floors..

What does it mean to be a woman?
To be a wife,
To be the meal planner,
To be the one who waits at tea..
To be the ironing lady too..

What does it mean to be a woman?
To be the household provider,
To be the driver,
TO be the worker,
To be the supervisor..

What does it mean to be a woman?
To be kind yet rough
To be soft-spoken yet out-spoken
To be gentle yet tough
To be be respectful yet respected..

What does it mean to be a woman?
To be pwetty, pwetty,
To be sexy and playful,
To be 34-24-34,
To be silky, soft, and fair..

But wait,
Is that all?
That's a quarter
The other is a mother.